I remember when Robert Kennedy was assassinated and the TV reporters descended on Rose Kennedy at her Hyannisport Compound.  “Mrs. Kennedy,” they questioned, “how do you do it?  You have had so much tragedy in your life, how do you go on?”  Rose Kennedy looked at the reporter with a resolve in her voice and a cold as steel stare and said, “It’s simple..I refuse to be vanquished”.  I thought, “how simple and mundane”..and then, as I thought more about her words, I realized how right she was.  Mrs. Kennedy had hit it right on the nose!  The decision is ours.  We can…