The first thing that you need to determine is why you are calling. Is it about a specific person or issue, about one or more specific life areas, or do you want a general reading. For a general reading, all you need to do is call, choose a reader, and allow them to bring through the information that spirit wants you to have.
If you are calling about a specific person, issue, or life area, stop and think about what you really want to know. What is important for you? How are you going to use the information given to you? Write down a list of questions that seem appropriate to you. You may ask them during your call, or you may start out with a question, and the reading takes on a life of its own.
Remember that you are in control of the reading. You can ask any question(s) that you want, at any time that you want. If you do not seem to be connecting with your reader, then end the call and try another reader. Not every reader is going to be a match for every client.
Try to keep your questions relevant and open – yes/no questions will generate very little usable information. Remember, there is no correct or incorrect answer … there are only answers that are obtained through information available at the time. Sometimes Spirit does not feel that it is the right time for us to know something. Towards or at the end of your reading, ask your reader about action steps that you can take to make a difference in your life.
The information that your reader brings to you will help you understand what is going on in your life, and it will point to the tools that you may choose to work with to make a change in your life. Once you understand where you are coming from, it is easier to see where other people in your life are coming from. We all have choices, even though sometimes we are not aware of them.
Go into your reading with a goal in mind … something that you want to know, or something that you want help with. Your reader is there to assist you in any and all ways possible. Readings can be used for guidance, to check in with yourself, to bring balance into your life, and to find direction when life chooses to become chaotic. Above all … they can bring you clarity!
Decide what you want to call about, write your questions down, consciously choose a reader from those available, take a deep breath, and prepare to enter a world where you are the most important person in it!